Let’s be real, being an author can be a wild ride. One moment you’re on top of the world—in your mind, and the next, you’re questioning every word you’ve ever written.
Imposter syndrome, self-doubt, and self-criticism are just a few of the challenges authors face, yet common and prominent. You can see the other struggles authors face in this blog. But here’s the thing: you are not alone. Even the most successful authors have struggled with these feelings at some points.
Imposter syndrome is that nagging feeling that you’re not good enough, that you’re just pretending to be a “real” author. On the other hand, self-doubt is that annoying little voice in your head that tells you that you will fail. But here’s the thing, that voice is a liar! The truth is that everyone feels like an imposter sometimes and doubts themselves.
Psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes first identified this phenomenon in 1978, noting that many individuals feel undeserving of their accomplishments, and according to a study published in the Wiley Online Library, up to 70% of people experience imposter syndrome and 71% of authors experience self-doubt. Yep, even the most successful authors have felt like they were not good enough and doubted themselves. An example is the renowned author behind The Sandman and American Gods, Neil Gaiman, who has shared multiple times that he feels like a fraud, even at the height of his authorship success.
Self-criticism is no better. It’s that relentless inner voice that tells you that your ideas are unoriginal, or that you don’t have what it takes to be a “real” author. While some level of self-criticism can push you to refine your craft, excessive doubt can be paralyzing, leading to writer’s block, procrastination, or even abandoning projects altogether.
Self-criticism often stems from perfectionism, comparison to other authors, or fear of failure. However, the key is not to eliminate it entirely but to manage it in a way that allows you to grow rather than crumble under its weight. The good news? You can shift from self-doubt to confidence with the right mindset and habits.
So, how do you deal with these pesky doubts and brutal self-criticisms? And more importantly, how do you build confidence in your writing?
1. Embrace Vulnerability
Allowing yourself to be vulnerable can lead to deeper connections and personal growth. Writing, by nature, is an act of courage—putting your thoughts, emotions, and ideas into the world invites both praise and critique. Recognizing that everyone has doubts, even the most celebrated authors, can be liberating. Therefore, instead of seeing vulnerability as a weakness, view it as a strength that makes your writing more authentic and impactful.
2. Continuous Learning
The best writers are perpetual students. Embrace feedback as an opportunity to improve rather than as a personal attack. Developing emotional intelligence when handling criticism can transform it into a tool for growth. Instead of dwelling on what you did wrong, focus on how you can refine your craft. Reading widely, attending workshops, and seeking mentorship can also help you gain confidence in your skills over time.
3. Practice Self-Compassion
Would you harshly criticize a fellow writer the way you criticize yourself? Probably not. So why do it to yourself? Challenge negative self-talk by reframing it into positive affirmations. Instead of saying, “This piece is terrible,” try, “This is a draft with potential.” Being kind to yourself fosters resilience and confidence, making it easier to continue writing, even when doubts creep in.
4. Seek Support
Writing can be a lonely endeavor, but you don’t have to go at it alone. Engage with fellow authors who understand the highs and lows of the craft. Surrounding yourself with a supportive writing community reminds you that self-doubt is normal—and that you’re not alone in your struggles.
5. Celebrate Small Wins
Confidence grows with acknowledgment of progress. Every word written, every draft completed, and every piece of positive feedback received is a step forward. Keep a journal of accomplishments, whether it’s finishing a chapter, getting constructive feedback, or publishing a piece. These reminders serve as fuel for your motivation and reinforce the reality that you are a writer, regardless of the doubts whispering otherwise.
Imposter syndrome, self-doubt, and self-criticism are part of an author’s journey, but they don’t have to define it. By embracing these, you can cultivate confidence in your writing. Remember, every great author has faced these struggles—the difference is they kept writing despite them. And so can you.
So, take a deep breath, remind yourself that this is part of the process, and keep writing.
